Recently in the media there has been yet another wave of
panic over foods that aren't good for you, aren't what they claim to be and
foods that have been labelled incorrectly.
Is this something new? No of course it’s not, there is
always a report from someone, a study by some university, a group of doctors
who through their research, have found that .... certain foods aren't good for
you.... or cause health issues etc etc.
Should we all listen intently to every word they say? Well
yes it’s probably a good idea to keep up to date with recent findings because
when armed with all the facts and information you are able to make an informed
decision yourself.
It's the ability to make decisions for yourself or the view
that we can’t, that makes me angry about all these findings. After each new
revelation, certain groups of society assume we can't make informed choices and
try and do it for us! Take the doctors who propose, that a tax on fizzy drinks will help fight the growing epidemic of obesity. Do I understand that fizzy drinks are loaded with sugar?... um yes I do, do I know that large amounts of sugar can lead to debilitating health problems?... yes I do, do I understand that the number of obese adults and children is rising? Yes I do, do I understand that obesity costs the NHS hundreds of thousands every year? ...well yes again I am aware of this, and yet it is assumed that although I am aware of these important facts, that I still can't be trusted to make a decision over whether I should purchase a sugary fizzy drink of my own free will and so to 'help' me they are going to make these drinks more expensive.
Would this is stop me from buying a fizzy drink when I feel
I want one? No probably not it'll just make me moan that I'm forking out more
cash than I used to.
Do I let my children drink sugar fuelled fizzy drinks? On
the whole no I don't, as an adult armed with the knowledge that a lot of these
drinks are full of sugar and sweeteners and caffeine and colours and additives,
I don't have them on offer in my house on a regular basis.... note I say 'on
offer' there are such drinks in my house but if you are under 18 years old you have
to ask if you can have one and the answer is nearly always no. This is
because I know they rot your teeth, and can lead to health issues and I don't
want to be the person who introduces such problems to my own children....
However I am not a fizzy drink fascist if we are out for
lunch with friends I will allow a fizzy drink with the food (I do try and steer
their choice but in the hope that I will one day have free thinking well
informed adult offspring who are capable of making their own food and drink
choices I ultimately let them have the final say...unless they are under 6
years old then what I say goes!)
I hold my hand up…… I am a comfort eater, food makes me feel
better, if I’m stressed I reach for something sweet, if I’m upset or hurt I like
any food going! Especially stodgy savoury meals, if I’m lonely I eat- almost
like the food is instead of company, if I have company in the evening I like to
share a little something. Is this a problem? Yes it is. Instead of dealing with
the problem, I am eating to cover the feelings. Are there consequences to this?
Yes I have put on weight and am now classed as overweight. Should I do something about this? Oh come on? Anyone
reading this knows I should and so I am, the first step has been to recognise
what I eat and when, I have been keeping track of both and have been quite
surprised.
Next is to cut down (there’s no way I would completely cut
stuff out so cutting down is good) and then there is tackling the cause of the
problem that made me want to eat in the first place. That’s the bit that’s difficult
but without the aid of professional help I think I am doing pretty well. I find
that as this year as I am approaching 35 years old, a creeping ‘I don’t give a
fuck’ attitude is becoming noticeable and my ever present liking of sarcasm is
becoming more prominent.
Do these things help me when the feeling of wanting to grab
something edible to make me feel better comes over me? Surprisingly yes, being
able to identify the cause of the problem and thinking I don’t give a fuck
right now means that instead of sitting hidden in the kitchen eating the contents
of the fridge I am able to go and do something else. I am educated enough to know for my own health
I need to lose weight and the best way to do that is to eat sensibly and
exercise more. I may not always be consistent and being overweight can
sometimes in its self-lead to feelings that make me want to eat but I can make
the choice not to…..and to exercise when I do indulge.
All this said I will add one Exception…….. at 11am when I’m
at work and as the only non-coffee/tea drinker in the office, I reserve the
right to have a fizzy drink as a sugary/caffeine fuelled pick me up! Judge me
if you wish I simply don’t give a fuck.